NFQ - What kind of person do I want to be

 Much in this question for a 60 second reflection.  

-- a good husband, someone she wants to be with, able to do stuff well with her. 

-- a good dad - similar stuff

-- able to get out and do stuff. 

-- respectful person. helping people

Releasing the Super Hero Inside

 So, I've been chubby for a long time.  Then COVID came around - and some other stressors.  I'm a bit of a stress eater - which might be an understatement.  So, when they started talking about the COVID 15 pounds - I got a little dyslexic and thought they said COVID 51 - ack!

So, I'm a fair bit chubbier than normal, and it's getting in the way.  The flight of stairs to my office is becoming more like climbing Mt Hood than a flight of stairs.  I live on a small farm, and my stamina for the work required there is pretty weak. Also, it's frustrating my wife - which creates more stressors and frustration.  

I'm not very good at listening to her. On the other hand, she is amazing at finding what's wrong in a situation - and verbalizing it and making suggestions and making sure you act on a suggestion or badgering until either you snap at her - where she'll go hide for a couple days - or she just gives in - and hides for a couple hours.